The relationship that Americans have with the presidency has always been a love-hate relationship. We treat each president pretty much the same way. It starts out new and exciting, kind of like any new relationship. We are excited to get to know each other, and have great hope for the future. Every time we tell ourselves this it this one is going to be different I can just feel it. Then pretty soon those cute things that enticed us in the beginning start to become annoying. President Obama’s eloquence that held our rapt attention before now seems to be empty words. We complain that he’s all sweet talk and no action. Soon we feel rejected and hurt, all his promises empty and unfulfilled. Basically the citizens of the United States have serious commitment issues.
The citizens’ relationship with the president is like a lot of high school relationships. We start out thinking of forever, but as soon as the going gets tough we bail. We are quick to start blaming every little thing on him, and are ashamed we even entered into the relationship in the beginning. Before we even really give him a chance we are already looking ahead scoping out the prospect for a new one something better, in say 2012 or so never mind it isn’t even 2010 yet.
In today’s world we are simply incapable of patience. We are a nation of speed, all about the efficiency. The idea of waiting a year for anything just seems preposterous to us. We want change and we want it now. Never mind that our governmental system is based on patience, and gridlock. That does not matter to the American people all we want are results damn it and we want them fast. I feel like the whole 24-hour news cycle is just too much, and is not helping with or already pretty serious commitment issues. The news is just like those friends in high school that were jealous of your relationship and are trying to get you to break up. They are always there buzzing in our ears telling us all the naughty things our president is doing behind our backs.
I do not think this relationship is ever going to change. We are never going to have a president that lives up to our expectations and high standards simply because the president is human and bound to make mistakes. The cycle will continue, and our love hate relationship will remain.